'SUP, NERDS?!
It's been a while since I've discussed cosplay. How awkward, considering I started this blog with the sole purpose of discussing the subject. It has also been a million years since I've sewed something. This could be due to being busy graduating college or moving across the country... but a lot of it has to do with glamour, vanity and self-esteem involved with cosplaying.
The Fear and Pressure of Dressing Up
This isn't a well sewn dress... but I made it, so that's cool. |
When I cosplay, I literally become whatever I want and feel the prettiest in the room-- even during the lowest peaks of my self-esteem I became a queen for a night.
Although it should be celebrated, I'm really bothered by the uprising of "thicc" cosplayers in the mainstream. It wasn't cool to be chubby or have a big butt years ago. It's refreshing to see bigger girls get the recognition they deserve, however female cosplayers of all shapes sexualize themselves and I think it is distasteful.
Aware of my own assets, I felt I wasn't good enough to be a "thicc" cosplayer. Thoughts like "Are my boobs big enough?" or "omg how do I afford a little bit of lipo with my insurmountable school debt?" were trapped in my head these past couple years. The toxicity of money and sex-appeal ate my cosplaying spirit.
I am so sick of thicc... |
Just a Bit Character
The hours I slave over cosplay are recognized when I'm complimented. My last entirely homemade cosplay didn't get much buzz, which totally bummed me out at ACen last year.
Hnnnnghhhh why am I so in love with Johnny?? Is it the cape? |
The sparkles from the sun. |
The Johnny Dilemma
Unfortunately cosplaying bit characters or creating weird interpretations of even a mainstream character nobody knows who you are. That is the Johnny Dilemma.
Proudly toting my heavy, sequined cape, I rocked Johnny upon debut. But nobody got it. Hell, I even bumped into people who were wearing the t-shirt of the band that Johnny and Dandy formed and didn't get a reaction. Oh, and actual Space Dandy cosplayers??? I don't think any of them watched the anime because nobody got my character.
Most of ACen 2016 flew by, Johnny didn't get any love from the 30000+ attendees until I browsed the vendors hall for overpriced anime. A young woman approached me from behind and stroked my cape. She stuttered, "Are... are you... Johnny?!"
The moment I uttered "yes" this woman excitedly asked for photos and exclaimed "I never thought I would ever find a Johnny."
Upon reflection and being in a better place than I was last year, I finally learned this is what cosplay is about.
Eradicating the Johnny Dilemma
Although the characters I cosplay are extremely niche or are taken in a unique direction, the people you meet matter more than the vanity or competition. I don't get a ton of attention at convention for my cosplay, but the interactions and relationships I've built as a result of bonding over a character or piece of media is invaluable.
I found the right people by cosplaying things dear to me. My buddy, Aeron, is dressed as Space Dandy from Anime Midwest 2016. We had such a broment when we bumped into each other. |
There's nothing wrong with wanting to be sexy and cosplay either. I've determined that if I'm going to make a sexy cosplay, it's for me, not to impress and garner the attention of anyone else. All of the outfits I make are for me to express my love of some cartoon, comic, game or movie.
Revisiting Old Cosplay & Looking to the Future
I want to make my Johnny cosplay again... I want to remake all of my old cosplay, I harbor so many good feelings for these characters and want to take what I've learned and improve. Hopefully I can go into remaking and creating new costumes with the spirit of community and friendship that I hadn't recognized before.
Cosplay is meant to be fun. Take pride in every piece you make or buy. Embrace the character and what attracts you to that imagery or personality. I really can't wait to show you what I'm working on right now. I'm in the middle of a few new costumes, all at various stages. My goal is to debut 2 or 3 solid cosplays by the time ACen 2018 rolls around.
Love you guys. Have fun.
LATER, DWEEBS!
-Loverly Liz
Sometimes I think about remaking old stuff, but I feel like it is more fun to look to a new character and a new challenge. Or at least if you're gonna remake then try with a new design that will pose new challenges to you!
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